How To Attract The Best Man For You

Imagine this scenario: You’re on a date. You’re with an amazing guy who is handsome and a ton of fun. But you get home and you’re exhausted. You feel like you’ve been wearing a mask over your true personality for two hours. Have you ever been there?

A lot of the time, finding the right guy is about sending the right signals. It’s easy to attract the wrong person if you aren’t showing who you really are. So how do you attract the best man for you?

Lean into Your Traits: Extrovert vs. Introvert

When you first meet me, you might think I’m a totally extroverted person. I love meeting new people, I love big groups, I love hosting parties. But here’s the truth: I’m an extroverted introvert. In reality, I need some time to recharge after hanging out with new people. I don’t always want to take the lead when I’m at a party. I need alone time.

Well, for the first few years of my dating career, I leaned into my extroversion and could not understand why I was only attracting introverts. The guys who would ask me out were much more introverted than I am, and it just didn’t work. They wanted me to take the lead conversationally, something I don’t always love doing. They wanted me to encourage social interactions, but that’s not always my forte. Read the rest at Evie Magazine.